Hello Everyone:

I know it’s been awhile since my last blog entry but I’ve been preoccupied with other matters.  I’m going to have to make a much more concerted effort to blog more often in the upcoming year.

During the holidays, I usually travel to New Orleans, Louisiana; however, I decided to postpone my annual trip until the Mardi Gras season in February and I just can’t wait.  When I don’t make my annual pilgrimage to ”the Crescent City”, it makes me moody and this is probably why I have not felt like writing blog entries.  It’s always nice to reconnect with a place in which you felt so comfortable.  There is something about this city that resonates deeply within my soul as “laughter and mother wit”.  New Orleans is truly a very interesting city to visit.  My life has been greatly enriched by living there.

My memories of New Orleans served me well during this past year.  2009 has not been one of my best years and I thank GOD that “I made it through” with a smile on my face and a song in my heart.  With the Great Recession causing so much havoc in 2009, many Americans on all socio-economic levels experienced substantial financial difficulties and disillusionment.  The level of intense negativity on the Internet as a whole surprised me.  Even when individuals were acknowledged for performing worthwhile acts that benefited others, people had nothing better to do than “sling mud”.  It seemed as though the devil, himself, had hijacked the Net.  Considering the overwhelming emphasis on our sluggish economy and high profile scandals, I’ll take “good news” over “bad news”, any day of the week!

I’ve had my trying times this year too, but I have always given individuals their credit when they deserved it.  The true test of maturity is being able to maintain your objectivity and fairness when your own reality is not all you would like it to be.  Being gracious is not always easy when you’re disappointed and stressed out but it‘s doable.  There were days in which I felt like a walking advertisement for Rudyard Kipling’s poem, “IF”.  This poem is timeless and well worth reading.  Realistically, adversity and opportunity are “the flip sides” of the same coin.  By experiencing challenges and obstacles, we learn to appreciate opportunities much more fully when they present themselves.  None of us enjoys navigating the rough seas of adversity but once the storm dissipates, we can see things much more clearly.  There are times when “a wake up call” or “shakeup” is in order to “reset” our perception of reality. 

In many ways the adversities and scandals of 2009, were a most appropriate way to close out this decade.  Too many of us were walking around within our own self-absorbed bubbles and they were bound to burst.  The more hypocritical and excessive, the louder the pop.  Karma is “no respecter of persons”.  Institutions and individuals who perceived themselves to be “untouchable” received a “rude awakening”.  Many well respected businesses were driven into bankruptcy.  Many high profile individuals were disgraced when their private excesses were exposed to the public.  “You have to live your life within the laws of the universe”, as the hip hop music mogul, Jay-Z said in a Gotham magazine interview earlier this year.  2009 reinforced this reality with a vengeance.  As a society, we’re “treading on thin ice” and if we are not careful, we just may fall through it! 

The wonderful thing about a New Year is that it rekindles hope and the promise of a new beginning.  With GOD all things are possible and with faith, we can accomplish the impossible!

May All of You Have a Blessed and Prosperous 2010!

Sistah Selah